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Andrew
You are the sunshine for my gloomy days.
I love your smiles, and giggles, and cheesiness. Mmuah. Mama loves you.
17 January 2018
Andrew's 1st Birthday
1 year ago, you just came out from my tummy after 17 hours of labour.
A year with you just flew by.
Time flies and now you are a toddler. Wow, how fast.
(On the side note: Well, yeah, I'm still sleep-deprived). Hahaha.. You have brighten our life with your smiles and cheekiness. You love your big brother and like to play with him.
May you grow into a good boy with good character, be the light where ever you go and brighten the surrounding with your smiles.
#andrewwidj12months.
#andrewwithtimmy
#timmywidj12years
17 Jan 2018
Ah bocah....🏂 Kamu memang menceriakan hidupku dengan senyummu yang manis. 😄😍
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Love that tiny fingers around my shoulder. 🎀
Ikut Mama ke bengkel ya Nak.
Emak jaman now emang musti strong....💪💪💪 Dari ngurus anak, rumah tangga, berkebun sampe ke bengkel. Hahahaha...
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Pagi pagi antar kamu ke dokter.
Kamu batuk pilek. Batuknya berdahak. Musim hujan kali ya...
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Habis itu Mama lihat iklan vaksin difteri, sekalian deh Mama vaksin. Katanya habis divaksin ada resiko demam, bengkak, tangan pegel pegel. .
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Padahal bahu kiri Mama udah sakit ini, mungkin salah batal.
Leher kiri sudah sakit. .
Ya weslah sekalian disuntik sekalian. Hahahaha....
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Habis itu kita ke bengkel yah.
Kilometer udah lewat jauh dari jadwal seharusnya ganti oli dan filter oli.
Sekalian ya Nak, kami ikut Mama puter puter. Hahahaha... .
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Mmuah..
Love you to the max.
Pulang ini, kita perjuangan lagi ya Nak.
Kata Dokter kamu perlu diuap.
Weleh...mikirin kamu bakalan berontaknya aja udah lemes neh....
Mana tangan lagi pegel, plus disuntik pula.
Lengkap deh Nak....Nak... Mama istirahat dulu deh ya.
Ngecharge batere dulu, sebelum kita bergulat dengan uap uap an. 😷😤😰😨 Love,
Mom
#andrewwidj12months
10 April 2017
Giving Birth to Andrew
In the morning, I had blood fleck coming out.
We went to the doctor, and were told to go to the hospital to check.
At the hospital, the nurse did the CTG and the contraction level was still low.
It was opening 1, I felt no pain yet.
The week before that, I had diare, because the night before, I ate watermelon that has been sitting in the fridge for a few days. Benny ate it too but he was fine. The next day, I had contraction, threw up until nothing could came out. We went to the Doctor that morning, and went to the hospital after that for CTG. There were serious contraction, it was level 70, 80. While the normal level would be 20.
The doctor told me to eat lunch first, and then to be checked again after lunch.
Luckily it was OK after lunch.
Doctor jaga at the hospital told me to be put on an IV.
Luckily it was not necessary.
In the afternoon we went for a walk.
Ci Aunie predicted that the baby will be born tomorrow.
And once again her prediction was right. Hahaha
At 10 pm at night, I started to have contraction.
Took deep breath in and out.
At 12 pm, still chatted with Lina, (mama Jonat).
Timmy accompanied me through contraction until 1 am.
Thank you boy.
At around 3.30, we went to the hospital.
The time interval between contraction was 3 minutes apart.
Checked in to the room, had 2 neighbours who have delivered their babies.
At around 5 am, the nurse told us to go to the delivery room.
In case the birth is fast, because this is the 2nd baby.
We brought the birthing ball, music, play mat.
The contraction come and go.
But at around opening 5, the contraction kept going, but the opening didn't advance.
Everytime I went to the toilet to pee, the contraction would come after that.
The nurse came to check and see, and it still didn't advance. Still opening 5.
I cried, because the contraction is longer and stronger, but the opening was still 5.
Finally the doctor came and we decided for induction.
Whoa! After the induction the contraction came non stop.
It was like a wave of contraction, one after another.
The peak was I felt like I had the need to push,
but the doctor was not there yet.
Benny helped me, soothing and massaging my back, contraction after contraction.
Thank you Darling.
The nurse Fitri was there too to help.
She assisted to block my vagina I think.
When I felt the need to push, if it wasn't for her, maybe the baby would have come out without the doctor. The poop came out instead. Ah.
The doctor finally came, and I flipped over to my back.
I could push, and finally Andrew came out.
He peed and pooped straight away, right after he came out.
I had episiotomi, the doctor cut the perineum area between vagina and anus.
So, the doctor stiched it, while I hugged and nursed Andrew.
So, finally Andrew was born on 7 January 2017, at 15.35 pm.
Normal delivery, without any pain killer.
Birth weight: 3.19 kg
Height: 48 cm
Head circumference: 35 cm.




































